By Shelley Hubal

Years ago, my mom labeled me the “practical daughter.” This has become a family punch line. It is true, though: I would happily say the ingredients of my life are simplicity with a dash of risk aversion. 

What are the superpowers of being “practical”? Having the skills to break down big undertakings and focus on the simple steps has always served me well. Accepting my shortcomings and those of others is another characteristic of practicality for which I am grateful. I have never been a competitive person; it feels like a waste of time and energy. You get the picture. The truth is that I thrive on the micro-pleasures of life. 

A recent discussion I attended on finding meaning in the High Holidays left me disappointed. It was too intellectual. My ears never perked up once with any straightforward instructions. Why can’t the message be simple and practical? Is it enough to just open your heart, accept there will always be struggle, treat people with respect, seek forgiveness with sincerity and work to do better next year?

In her poem “School Prayer,” poet Diane Ackerman beautifully describes practical guideposts for living in relationship with God. You may appreciate her words during the High Holidays and every day. They include, “I will honor all life – wherever and in whatever form it may dwell.”

With gratitude, I wish you all a good year, a sweet year and year of fulfilling, practical life lessons.